I believe you just didn’t realise you had that part of you inside. And you don’t have to act on it if you don’t wish to.
According to the Kinsey Scale (which some people believe and some don’t) there are 7 different “levels” of sexuality. Ranging from 0 = completely heterosexual. To 6 = completely homosexual. With 3 = equally heterosexual and homosexual; bisexual.
Meaning the majority of mankind has some level of attraction to the opposite sex. I would put you at a 1… which I believe reads as “predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual” You’re dream would be considered an ‘incident’, especially if you enjoyed your dream.
Gayism is now being considered genetic and I agree. But presumably, all guys are straight until the age of 10 or so. Only with the onset of puberty do they start understanding their mind and body. It is then in one’s teens when one can understand if he is gay, bi or straight and can exercise one’s sexual interests accordingly. That is the normal and widely adopted way. However, it may also happen that one realizes he is gay during the due course of life, could be in 30s, 40s or 50s. Those people which then become gay are the ones who turn to being gay due to circumstances or some mental and emotional reasons, or are the ones who realize that they are gay and always were, only that they realized very late.
But as far as “becoming gay”… no… I don’t believe in that.
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- No. If he "turns," then he was gay or bi all along. 100%, 4 votes4 votes 100%4 votes - 100% of all votes
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I think that there are different reasons for the appearance of gays. It is impossible to say unequivocally whether orientation can change a lot. Anything can happen!
I’m absolutely sure that you can’t become a gay after being straight all your life. But bisexuality – that’s the thing. All depends on a situation and a person you are connected to.
It’s a very complicated question, I am not an expert, so, I can’t say if a straight man can become gay or not, but there are many celebrities who used to be heterosexual (or pretended to be straight) but later changed their orientation radically. For example, Ricky Martin. He had many love affairs with girls in the past, but then everything changed for some reason.