I Fell in Love With My Best Friend & Our Sex Life Is Awesome
It’s interesting what goes on when you start having emotions for your best friend-you don’t just welcome new emotions, additionally you bring secrets of the past: the stories, the drunken regrets and all that’s among. But my man and I are a complete different story, honey.
Seven years ago if you would have said I’d be shacking it up with my best friend, I’d have thought you were crazy. Countless of shared friends told us how great we were together and exactly how much they needed us to date-both of us squealed with laughter at the very thought of seeing each other naked. Little did we know how right they were.
Dating your best friend has enormous benefits, but the best one above all is the sex.
After years of exchanging sexual encounters with one another as besties, now, in the back of my mind I think, “Holy crap. I’m now one of his stories. But better.” Enough time we went out clubbing and he installed with some dude in the stall-I was there! Or enough time I ended up staying the night with a random stranger in Vegas we fulfilled at the pool-he was there too! We remember these things and now, we’re part of a fresh story. Our story.
At the beginning we couldn’t touch each other without giggling, but that soon subsided. Using the psychological tie-ins and past connection, it become much more seductive than either of us expected. Not only that, but we’re also completely honest with one another in what is lacking and how we might correct it.
Our relationship had always been one of honesty, and as a couple that expanded. Most of the time we know what the other is considering before it’s mentioned-this has helped us have better sex. It don’t matter what, when or how, sexual fantasies should never be kept hidden for long, even the craziest.
Making love with your very best friend is hysterical because in a weird way it’s like having sex with yourself. Each and each time the deed happens, I hardly feel pressure to try and compensate for anything because I understand he’ll do it for me personally, and vice versa. We’ve a no key policy-when one of us wants to have sexual intercourse, we say it; and when one of us has a kinky idea, we share it. It has created a nonstop sex fiasco that’s lasted for a long time.
A major necessity for sex is intimacy and companionship. In the event that you aren’t more comfortable with your partner, sex is going to feel just like a chore, a duty. My man and I find sex to be recreational. It’s a game that bonds us together with techniques I never really had before, honey, and let me tell you it’s not heading away anytime soon.
Should anyone ever feel just like you’re falling deeply in love with your best friend, trust me when I say don’t press it to the side because you’re afraid. Looking back I realized I cherished him the next I saw his floppy hair but was too worried to view it. Now I reach see it every evening before I fall asleep and once, sometimes twice, per day under the bed linens. When your lover and best friend will be the same person, sex becomes a constant adventure.