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Gay Relationship Mistakes

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Gay Relationship Mistakes

February 26, 2018

Common Relationship Mistakes Gay Men Make

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Being in a relationship with that someone you love can bring unbeatable joy and happiness to your heart. No other emotion is more profound to humans than that of falling in love, and the experience of being in a relationship with your found love is divine. That explains why we all, regardless of our sexual orientations, look forward to being in and maintain a great relationship.

In other words, whether gay, trans or straight, we all put in continuous efforts to keep our relationships alive. That said, gay relationships, in particular, are renowned for being complicated and intense. To maintain the fire in a gay relationship, gay partners like in straight affairs, have to be at their “accommodating best” to tolerate their same-sex lovers. Unfortunately, most gay lovers unknowingly commit some relationship blunders that cost their relationships.

In this article, I will be walking us through three relationship mistakes gay lovers commit. So, without further ado let’s dig in, shall we?

1. Neglecting each other’s needs:

It is a well-known fact that we all have needs that require being met, and when we are in a relationship, we expect our partners to be concerned about our needs. Unfortunately, most gay lovers, after getting to know their partners inside and out start taking for granted. When that happens, such gay men begin to care less about meeting the needs of their partners.

Now, that’s one of the fastest developments that can destroy any relationship. To avoid that, gay men must develop the habit of communicating more in their relationship by creating time for heart-to-heart talks at least once every month.

During such conversations, you both can enlist your needs and put in a genuine effort to have them met.

2. Not updating your relationship vision:

There is no way two gay men can be in a relationship without sharing a similar vision. In other words, you guys fell in love and got involved in a relationship because of the common perception you share.

Therefore, failure to update your relationship vision with your lover amounts to a huge mistake that can cause you both to walk your separate ways. I assume you wouldn’t want that to happen, would you?

It is, therefore, important for you two to occasionally talk about your relationship goals and aspirations to ascertain if you guys are still on the same page. This will help in keeping the tendencies of growing apart from each other in check.

3. Getting involved too soon:

Granted it doesn’t take a lifetime to fall in love, but most gay who are attracted to each other get into relationship sooner than necessary.

Before you commit yourself to a relationship as a gay man, it is essential you take time to analyze the situation objectively.

Search your heart to ascertain if you are ready to get committed and ask yourself such questions like; is he the right man I want to be in a relationship with? To get the answers to the questions you will ask yourself, you need to observe your would-be lover, and such observation requires time.

The importance of not rushing into a gay relationship can, therefore, not be overemphasized.


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