Hold Your Wild Lust! (Can Barebacking Be Safer Sex?)
Barebacking and HIV Is On The Rise!
Today, 50% of gay men say that they don’t use a condom consistently. Has the message of HIV avoidance been working? Many appear to think that it hasn’t made a genuine effort in promoting the potential risks, factors, and consequences of barebacking. The craze of barebacking has been rising since the invention of the hook-up app. The funny thing is, we have also been seeing a rise in HIV/AIDS statistics. Will there be a connection?
According to a recent poll, 46.4% of gay guys who have used hook-ups confess to presenting bareback sex. 73% of them stated it was acted out of “impulse.” Within this era, where homosexual sex comes constantly as only a “promiscuous act,” it isn’t surprising that a lot of young gay guys don’t wish to question.
Since the AIDS crisis two decades ago, there has been an explosion of HIV testing clinics – way more in the last five years. Testing booths are in clothing stores, farmers markets, coffee shops, circuses, everywhere you go there are screening opportunities. Have these clinics end up being the only way of alleviating risks? Should we kiss condoms bye-bye?
Guys are guys and 100% of us do not like to wear a condom. It’s a fact. The only reason why the latex condom was invented was to protect the transmission of STDs and since fewer people are dying, the world considers it’s much safer. It’s not! Every 9 . 5 seconds, an American is infected with HIV.
Of the many sub communities, none other has been affected more than the dark community. In america, African People in america represent 14% of the population, yet they take into account nearly Fifty percent of the 1.2 million people in America coping with HIV (women and men). The percentage hasn’t transformed in nearly two decades, the annual accounts of new HIV attacks among blacks has increased about 600 per calendar year. Although the action of barebacking is pretty identical among all neighborhoods, the fact that it is more frequent in the black community is the reason why it has made a greater impact within it. The hispanic community is not too much behind. They represent 17% of individuals living with HIV (women and men) and are consistently rising.
These two communities are often thought to be the stereotypical “Down-Low” husband that spreads his infection to their wives without her knowing. We’ve all seen that Oprah show… Is this a result of their homophobic culture? It’s not a shock that it’s difficult to be homosexual in these two communities since a primary characteristic among the culture is male masculinity. Do you think if we, as a country, made the thought of “masculine vs. womanly” less important that it might help more men be comfortable in coming out within these communities?
Between 2006 and 2009, there is a 46% increase in HIV among gay sex; it is 61% of most HIV cases, which is constantly growing. The homosexual community has always been the poster child for HIV – yet we don’t really treatment, it seems. Barebacking has turned into a life-style now. There are groups who pride themselves in ONLY barebacking, and when asked their position, they may be “uncertain.” When have we reached the idea that HIV is so blaze?
Ten years ago, you’d be shunned from the bedroom if you didn’t want to wear a condom. The way of thinking has evolutionized into an uncaring society. We’ve not cured this disease yet, so why are people surpassing the idea of safe sex? Our teenagers are now dependent on these hook-up applications and see them as not only a way to meet other homosexual guys, but a casino game. This is one way they are exploring their “Coming-Out” years! Your investment times when you had to drive yourself to the nearest gay bar, ten kilometers away, and wish that no one sees you.
They took this time around in their lives, where men will be the most promiscuous, and made it digital. Their life has become a Playstation game with no fear of implications. Now when someone reads that their sex partner is “clean” or “negative” on their Grindr profile, it has turned into a contractual signature. An operating agreement.
Let’s be real with ourselves.